Why Spank at all?

Why spank at all?  If there's a problem in the relationship why not discuss the problem and work it out without spanking?

In my spanking relationships discussing the problem is a given.  Spanking relationships are really no different than Vanilla ones.  The main difference is that two adults have sat down and decided that the best way to resolve certain conflicts within the relationship is through spanking.

This does at least two things.  One it causes the Spanker to be more responsible than the spankee.  You can't justify spanking someone for bad behavior if you the Spanker are guilty of the same behavior.  The Spanker should always be looking at their actions and set the example.  The second thing it does is make the spankee accountable.  Generally the spankee is the one who is constantly battling something like tardiness, pickup after themselves, keeping appointments, etc.  It doesn't make the spankee a terrible person but they and their Spankee realize that the best way to keep them on track is through spanking their naughty bottoms.

It's really a respect thing too.  I don't respect a woman who wouldn't willingly get across my lap for a spanking when she needs it.  And most women who get spanked wouldn't get across the lap for a spanking if they didn't respect their Spanker.  In other words, "He's not a real man if he doesn't spank me."  Trust me I've heard that many, many times.

#1 Female for 2012 needing a good spanking!

Tiger Woods' ex-wife when she bought a $12 million home and bulldozed the whole thing.  She is top of my list.  If you have so much money you can throw away 12 million dollars like that you need a long hard spanking.  She could have done a hundred other things, like donate it or something.  Instead she throws a tantrum.

Now doesn't that smirk look like it needs to be spanked away and taught a lesson?

Spanking works wonders!

It's a strange thing really.  In vanilla relationships the husband might say, "The house is getting too cluttered," and the stay at home wife might reply, "I'll try to work on it today."  If she doesn't then who knows what happens.

In a HOH, CDD household the husband might say, "The house is getting too cluttered," and the stay at home wife might reply, "I'll work on it today."  The difference is that she knows that it's gotten too cluttered, right now because of the Holidays and now she has heard it's time to get back to organization of the household.  She also knows that if she doesn't get the house, living room at least, in order by the time the husband comes home he will sit down at the kitchen bench, pull down her pants and panties and spank her because she knows it should have been done.

This relationship works well for so many relationships out there because it's straight forward and honest.  There's no bantering or arguing.  It's simple, "This needs to get done and it's your job to do it."  When it doesn't get done then motivation is needed.

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Top Spanko States for 2011

I do love statistics.  Last year this blog had 285,000 hits.  We had hits from every State but these were the top Spanko States.

New York
3821

California 
3738

Texas 
2416

Washington 
2356

Pennsylvania 
2200

Florida 
2104

Illinois 
1775

Ohio 
1759

New Jersey 
1469

Michigan 
1345